Child Participation Case Study

Empower Kids - Barnardo's inclusion of children who experienced childhood domestic violence and abuse

How Barnardos involved children and young people who experienced childhood domestic violence and abuse in service and policy decision-making.

Background Information

The project in which we involved children and young people in decision-making

Empower Kids

The topic on which we were looking for their views

Childhood domestic violence and abuse

The reason we wanted their views

We wanted to raise awareness and understanding of the specific experiences and needs of children and young people who experience domestic violence and abuse (DVA).  There is a need to give these ‘seldom heard’ voices the opportunity in terms of the use of Space, Voice, Audience and Influence, to shape the development and delivery of frontline services addressing their needs. Encouraging children and young people in this way are crucial to ensuring services and policies are fit for purpose.  While there is a lot of research available on the impact of DVA on children, we wanted to understand more about their own lived experiences.

The decision-makers that facilitated and listened to their views

At Barnardos, Childhood Domestic Violence and Abuse (CDVA) project, we facilitated a multi-agency project participation project.  Where 13 individual DSGBV support services volunteered to became part of the Empower Kids project and engage children and young people in their service through their keyworker system.  The Empower Kids project team member services are:  Cope Domestic Violence service Galway, Adapt domestic abuse services, Mayo women’s support services, Longford women’s link, Meath Domestic violence service, Daughters of Charity – Dublin Safer families, Women’s aid Dundalk, EPIC, Saoirse Domestic Violence services and Cuan Saor Domestic Violence service. Barnardos TLC KIDZ projects across North Tipp, Limerick/Clare, Cavan/Monaghan.

 The decision-maker/s responsible for acting on their views

All members’ services of the Empower Kids project – which is facilitated by Barnardos.

 The age of the children and young people

7 – 20+ years old.

 Other relevant information about the children or young people (e.g. disability, ethnic background, social disadvantage, etc.)

All 30 children and young people had lived with domestic violence and abuse.  At the time of their participation, they were engaged with a support service – either a community-based Barnardos domestic violence/abuse service or a specialist domestic violence/abuse service.

There was a mix of both male/female children/young people.

How we gave space, voice, audience and influence to young people’s views

SPACE

How we ensured a safe and inclusive space to hear the views of young people

Things we considered What we did
The space or setting where we got their views (this may include online settings)
  • We decided to engage children and young people in an environment that promoted physical and emotional safety at all times.
  • We also felt due to the trauma that the children and young people may have experienced, a familiar environment was key in creating this safe space, typically this was in the service they engaged with regularly or in their family home.
How you identified the children and young people to be involved
  • Each support service engaged in the Empower Kids project initially identified children and young people who may be suitable for this work.
  • We then took time to assess their suitability so that their participation did not compromise their physical or emotional safety in any way.
How you involved those who were directly affected by the topic
  • We engaged support services who work directly with children who have lived with domestic violence and abuse in the participation project.
  • Each individual support service identified suitable children and young people for assessment and together we engaged over 30 children and young people who have lived with domestic violence and abuse in this consultation process.
How early in the process they were involved in decision-making
  • We involved the children and young people in decision-making once they were engaged in the project after the initial consultation phase.
  • This began during the creative output process, where we gathered their views and ideas to create the brief for the animation and poster.
  • More recently they have been involved in deciding the direction of the work for 2022.
How the process was inclusive and accessible
  • We felt the best way to engage this cohort of seldom-heard children and young people, was to facilitate their access either in their local area service or in the comfort of their own homes.
  • They already had a relationship with their keyworker, so this transition from support work to participation work was seamless for many.
  • We gave extra time and attention to be as inclusive of the individual needs of the children and young people as possible.

VOICE

How we gave young people a voice in decisions

Things we considered What we did
How we informed young people about the topics on which we wanted their views
  • We identified with the children and young people that there is a lack of understanding of the lived experience and needs of childhood domestic violence and abuse nationwide.
  • Each individual support worker used materials such as age-appropriate information videos and handouts with the children and young people to fully inform them of the topic on which we wanted their views and the purpose of the work itself.
How we made sure they knew their views would be taken seriously
  • We ensured each child/young person was aware of the purpose of the work, that it was their right to be heard and listen to, and that we were all working collaboratively to raise the visibility of childhood domestic violence at a local, regional and national level.
  • We felt it was important that we fostered a culture of respect for the true, honest, and accurate views of the children/young people who engaged in the process throughout this work.
  • We were transparent about what was happening at all times.
How we informed them about level of influence they could have on decision-making
  • From the onset, we wanted all the children and young people involved to feel included, and have their experiences validated and their expertise recognised.
  • We let them know that everything they said would be taken seriously, and that it would contribute to creating a better understanding among service providers and policymakers about children and young people’s experiences of domestic violence and abuse.
The methods we used to get their views
  • We designed open-ended questions and vignettes for the children and young people to feedback on a certain topic.
  • Depending on the individual child/young person, each individual support worker selected from the following list of engagement tools to allow them to express their opinions and give feedback for those open-ended questions:
    • Confidence building exercises: Know who you are, me me me, and me tree.
    • Creating space Ice breakers: listen and learn, clapping game, draw what your partner tells you
    • Facilitating voice: Placemat exercise, body art, lifelines, top ten, identity/wish boxes
    • Closure: mindfulness and regulation exercises, affirmation cards
How we made sure they could identify topics they wanted to discuss
  • Throughout both years, we kept the questions and topics very open and broad so that children and young people could choose what to feedback in to the process.
  • In 2020: We asked children/YP what domestic violence and abuse look like to them.
  • In 2021: The theme for the engagement process, was “What matters for children and young people who live with Domestic Violence and Abuse” – as a result of keeping it broad, common themes naturally emerged throughout all the feedback and the children and young people involved had ownership and control over what they wanted to contribute.
Please describe the topics and issues they raised
  • The children and young people provided us with a narrative about their lived experiences of domestic violence and abuse. They gave us insight into the trauma of domestic violence and abuse, the impact on their day-to-day lives and their sense of agency as a whole.
  • The children/young people identified the important role of their non-offending parent (mother in this case), their teachers/ schools, gardai and how they viewed their relationship with their parent who chooses to abuse.  Having them held accountable was important to them and this can take many forms.
  • The importance of being involved in decisions that affect their lives was another prominent theme, and they provided valuable guidance to professionals to respond to children/young people living with domestic violence and abuse.

AUDIENCE

How we made sure that there was an audience (decision-makers) for young people’s views

Things we considered What we did
How we developed a report or record of the young people’s view
  • The children involved helped us develop a more in-depth understanding of their lived experiences. And we have created a children’s definition of childhood domestic violence and abuse.
  • We also created multimedia outputs with the children and young people to capture their views and present them to the public:
    • An animation called The Impact of Domestic Violence and Abuse on Children
    • An animation called Hear Me, See Me, Keep Me Safe
    • Infographic called Our Rights – Your Responsibilities
  • Link to our multimedia outputs

 

How we checked back with them that their views were accurately represented
  • We regularly checked in (and continue to check in) with the children and young people involved on how their views were taken and if it was a true and accurate reflection of what they had said.
  • Before any product is launched or goes public, all the children and young people involved have a last look over the final version, to ensure that it is reflective of their lived experience of domestic violence and abuse.
How we involved the decision-makers who are responsible for influencing change (other than yourself)
  • During this work, each local area organisation in Empower Kids project involved their own local area decision-makers in raising awareness of the lived experience of children and young people who have lived with domestic violence and abuse.
  • At a national level, we engaged decision-makers through our childhood domestic violence and abuse national advisory group and the childhood domestic violence and abuse community of practice.
  • We also engaged with national services that the children and young people deemed important in their consultation, such as schools via the NCCA (National Council for curriculum and assessment), TUSLA (Child and family agency), ICGP (Irish college of general practitioners), Gardai (through the special protective units) and the Department of Justice (through the consultation for the 3rd National Strategy for Domestic Sexual and Gender-Based Violence).
At what point we involved decision makers other than yourself in the process
  • We grew this project from discussions with and suggestions from the interagency collaborative networks that we are involved in at a local, regional, and national level.
  • These are the Childhood Domestic Violence and Abuse National Advisory Committee and the Childhood Domestic Violence and Abuse Community of Practice.
How we and other decision-makers showed our commitment to listening to, and acting on young people’s views
  • The children’s views have been central to the work to date. We strived at all times to keep them unfiltered.
  • The views of the children and young people have continuously shaped the themes emerging, the work plan for Barnardos CDVA project, the outputs for the Empower Kids project, and the course or direction of the work of the project going forward.
  • The children have received an email from the Minister for Justice to congratulate them on the powerful animations they have produced to date.
  • We keep the children and young people updated on the impact of their work, through regular update videos.
How we supported young people to play a role in communicating their own views to decision-makers
  • We are in the early stages of this work. To date, we facilitate the children’s and young people’s views through 1:1 engagement sessions with their key workers. This is then channelled through the Barnardos Childhood Domestic Violence and Abuse Project to reach decision-makers.
  • We have begun discussions with the children and young people about setting up a child and youth advisory panel for childhood domestic violence and abuse to create a more direct link between the children and young people themselves and decision-makers.

INFLUENCE

How young people were given updates at key points in the development of the plan

Things we considered What we did
How we informed young people about the topics on which we wanted their views

We created regular update videos from the National Coordinator of the CDVA project which were shared by the individual support services with the children and young people.

How their views were acted on by the appropriate decision-makers (what happened to their views)
  • The National Council for Curriculum and Assessment (NCCA) commissioned a webinar centred on the voice of and recommendations from children and young people who have lived with Domestic violence and abuse.
  • This is available to all teachers for both the primary and secondary curricula.
  • The Irish College of General Practitioners (ICGP) is hosting the resources made by children and young people alongside their domestic violence guidelines for GPs.
  • The 3rd National Strategy for DSGBV (domestic sexual and gender-based violence) has just been released, and already we can see the views of the children and young people reflected in the strategy.  For example, strengthening the voices of the child in court proceedings.
Whether we continually checked back with children and young people about the ways you used their views with decision-makers (if possible or appropriate)
  • Over time, we are aware that some children and young people may for their own reasons, disengage from the work.
  • However, this is not reflective of their commitment, more to do with their current circumstances. So, we do keep those who are engaged up to date as much as possible and they are aware of all developments.
  • We try to have a continuing working relationship with the children and young people, and they are engaged in projects during the year.
How they were given full and age-appropriate feedback explaining how their views were used (or not) and the reasons for decisions taken
  • We keep the children and young people up to date on how their views were taken, and where their information has reached throughout the process.
  • We do this through their individual engagement sessions, and we create updated videos to ensure the children and young people are clear on the impact of their views on decisions taken.
How we enabled them to evaluate the process throughout
  • They participated in 1:1 engagement sessions with their individual keyworkers giving us feedback on the process.
  • We have created a children’s voices video with their feedback. 
What young people said in the evaluation
  • “It felt better doing this, that I felt heard, and that I can make a difference – even if I was little.”
  • “I know I’m not in that place anymore, and the effect of it, this is a good way to get it out.”
  • “You know no different, you think it’s normal, I like helping people – I know I am doing something good.”
  • “It is good that they are listening to our voice.”
  • “I wanted to do this and I know it might have be difficult, and hard, but if it helps someone else, then it’s worth it, If it can stop a person like me hurting like I did.”
  • “I’m so proud of it, and my shield, all I wanted to do is to make others happy and safe.”
  • “It’s good to have a voice in something, we don’t have a voice in much things.”
  • “I found it good because I can help other children.”
  • “Every age child has different experiences – It’s never too late to share our experiences.”
  • “There was a lot in the animation but that it was good to see it there especially around school.”

Impact

What changes were made because of children/young people giving their views?

We also included the views of the Empower Kids children and young people in submissions for the:

The important role that schools and teachers, play and could play in the lives of children and young people living with domestic violence and abuse is featured strongly throughout this work.  We reached out to the Department of Education’s NCCA (National Council for Curriculum and Assessment) and we were commissioned by the NCCA to create a webinar which is hosted on the NCCA’s website and accessible to all primary and post-primary teachers.  This webinar is focused on the work of the Empower kids project, in particular, the animation ‘Hear me See me Keep me safe’ and the infographic Our Rights – Your Responsibilities. It can be viewed online at this link.

The learning for our organisation

The key learning for our organisation from the process and outcome (end result) of involving children or young people in this initiative

 

Looking back, how did the final outcome compare with our initial assumptions and those of other decision-makers involved in the process?

 The final output exceeded anyone’s expectations.  The feedback from the children and young people themselves was exceptional, it was so moving, powerful and a voice that is very seldom heard.  The weight of this task to accurately represent their voices was at times daunting but one which all support services and the Barnardos CDVA project took very seriously and treated with respect at all times.   We continue as a group of professionals to create opportunities to create ‘audience’ and ‘influence’ for the work of the 30 children and young people who have engaged in the Empower kids project to date.

 What worked well?

Engaging children on a 1:1 basis.  Each child had the opportunity to feed into the project, had the opportunity to do so in their own time, in their own environment and was supported to do so in their own unique way.

If we were doing it again, is there anything we would do differently?

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